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And why the lowercase ‘i’ (you’ll notice as you read these blogs)? If i truly want to be a caddy for others, i need to be number one at being number two. i need to shift the attention from me and my ideas to simply ensuring the player gets results. i must become less and the player must become more. Maybe that’s why the name-dropping grated on me (in Blog 1)? i take inspiration in this from Gloria Watkins, who wanted her pen name (bell hooks) to be spelled in lowercase to shift the attention from her identity to her ideas. Let the ideas about caddying and supporting others to greatness be the core of caddying. It’s not about me.
“It [the blog] felt personal, positive but realistic. It felt like reading it you were just standing there as my caddie. I know you know me and my struggles” HM Queensland, Australia
Blog 42: Why am I unlucky? Nine things you can do to make your own luck – a three part series – PART 1
©Nathan S Collier Sometimes we just feel unlucky. Have you ever felt others seem to be getting all the breaks whereas you just feel stuck?
Blog 41: There’s lots of crap you deal with that you don’t need to: PART 2: face it – you’re not good at mind reading and dealing with projecting intent.
©Lakefront Psychology Face it . . . you can’t read what someone is thinking. At best all you can get is a clue, and that
Blog 40: There’s lots of crap you deal with that you don’t need to: PART 1: Sorting through expectations and assumptions . . . and allowing your assertiveness to step in.
©Women working People can be difficult. Especially at work. Our relationships go wonky. We get hurt and offended. When the stress, workload and unsupportive colleagues
Blog 39: Help! I don’t have a clue where my career is going. Help me to map out my career. PART 3: making a career action plan . . . with feedback loops
The planner provided (above) illustrates our journey through this blog series. Here’s where you should be up to: Now let’s turn this research into an
Blog 38: Help! I don’t have a clue where my career is going. Help me to map out my career. Part 2: the coffee that makes the big difference
©EHL insights In the last blog we laid some foundations for considering a new career path. Six broad areas of thought were provided for you
Blog 37: Help! I don’t have a clue where my career is going. Help me to map out my career.
©MindManager Blog Who else is struggling knowing how to advance their career? Are you struggling to find the right opportunities for growth and advancement? Do
Blog 36: When your work environment is just too toxic, but it’s too hard to jump.
©LinkedIn i seem to be bumping into people who are struggling with toxic workplaces and the courage to leave. Some are those who ,are engaging
Blog 35: Time management: When there just doesn’t seem to be enough time and there is plenty to juggle. PART 5: Making sure you make space for the ‘not important’ in a balanced life
©Week Plan This is the last of series of five blogs on time management and again the focus is on your personal life. This blog
Blog 34: Time management: When there just doesn’t seem to be enough time and there is plenty to juggle. PART 4: Maximising your Quadrant 2 personal life . . . three more aspects needing your attention.
©#inkology quote instagram This is the fourth blog on time management with at least one more to come. The feedback has been that this is