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And why the lowercase ‘i’ (you’ll notice as you read these blogs)? If i truly want to be a caddy for others, i need to be number one at being number two. i need to shift the attention from me and my ideas to simply ensuring the player gets results. i must become less and the player must become more. Maybe that’s why the name-dropping grated on me (in Blog 1)? i take inspiration in this from Gloria Watkins, who wanted her pen name (bell hooks) to be spelled in lowercase to shift the attention from her identity to her ideas. Let the ideas about caddying and supporting others to greatness be the core of caddying. It’s not about me.
“It [the blog] felt personal, positive but realistic. It felt like reading it you were just standing there as my caddie. I know you know me and my struggles” HM Queensland, Australia
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