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And why the lowercase ‘i’ (you’ll notice as you read these blogs)? If i truly want to be a caddy for others, i need to be number one at being number two. i need to shift the attention from me and my ideas to simply ensuring the player gets results. i must become less and the player must become more. Maybe that’s why the name-dropping grated on me (in Blog 1)? i take inspiration in this from Gloria Watkins, who wanted her pen name (bell hooks) to be spelled in lowercase to shift the attention from her identity to her ideas. Let the ideas about caddying and supporting others to greatness be the core of caddying. It’s not about me.
“It [the blog] felt personal, positive but realistic. It felt like reading it you were just standing there as my caddie. I know you know me and my struggles” HM Queensland, Australia

Blog 60: Why am I always saying sorry? I feel like I am always making mistakes and am never good enough. PART 3 – Anything else I can do?
Yep. There are a range of things i’d like to leave you with in this three-part series. The difference between average people and achieving people

Blog 59: Why am I always saying sorry? I feel like I am always making mistakes and am never good enough. PART 2 – Enter the pocket sheet
i hope the work you did in blogs 55 to 58 on balancing work and vacation served you well over the Easter break . .

Blog 58: Why am I always saying sorry? I feel like I am always making mistakes and never good enough.
I am such a klutz. Why am I always saying sorry? Every day just feels like another mistake I have made, an event I am
Blog 57: When it’s time to come back to work . . . regardless of how good that holiday was. Where work meets vacation – PART 3
Now I know you’ve still got a week to go to the Easter vacation. Keep in mind this blog series is about setting you up

Blog 56: I can’t get work out of my head and it’s ruining my holiday! Here’s how to take that vacation AND sharpen the saw – PART 2
It’s common to find yourself on your annual leave and your mind is filled with work. You can’t escape work; despite the fact you find

Blog 55: Why do I always work on my holiday? Here’s how to take a vacation and sharpen the saw – as you step towards Easter
We’re a month away from Easter and for nearly all of us there is a long weekend waiting. And maybe for some, this might be

Blog 54: On being weird
©The New Yorker Somewhere along the way i have come to recognize i am weird. But now i recognize this weirdness is OK. i’ve given

Blog 53: On being coached.
Let’s begin again for up to now we have done nothing. Francis of Assisi Blog 53 marks a turning point in the support being provided

Blog 52: That’s a year of caddying blogs – so let’s begin again, for there is so much that can be overcome together
©Good good good And so that is one year of Your life caddy blogs. For those who have journeyed through this past year, i hope