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And why the lowercase ‘i’ (you’ll notice as you read these blogs)? If i truly want to be a caddy for others, i need to be number one at being number two. i need to shift the attention from me and my ideas to simply ensuring the player gets results. i must become less and the player must become more. Maybe that’s why the name-dropping grated on me (in Blog 1)? i take inspiration in this from Gloria Watkins, who wanted her pen name (bell hooks) to be spelled in lowercase to shift the attention from her identity to her ideas. Let the ideas about caddying and supporting others to greatness be the core of caddying. It’s not about me.
“It [the blog] felt personal, positive but realistic. It felt like reading it you were just standing there as my caddie. I know you know me and my struggles” HM Queensland, Australia

Blog 67: How do I manage multiple expectations from a range of others – superiors, colleagues and subordinates?
Managing expectations can be a significant challenge for emerging leaders. Just managing your boss’ expectations can be difficult, but for new leaders, you will need

Blog 66: Other people are getting ahead of me. I’m being left behind. What can i do? PART 2
In the last blog we aimed to change your thinking – get you shifting away from a scarcity mindset and toward a more positive, abundance

Blog 65: Other people are getting ahead of me. I’m being left behind. What can I do? PART 1
©Shutterstock First, don’t panic. Your work life isn’t a race that’ll be over in a minute. This is a longer game. But these feelings can

Blog 64: I’ve lost all my drive in life. I know that discipline matters, but how do I get moving when I just don’t feel like it?
©Appreciation at Work This blog is for those who are crying out for this kind of help . . . It sounds like your get

Blog 63: Centering PART 3 – on being mindful. Practical activities for your life’s rhythm.
©Wellmark So, there are a range of things that can get your mind in a healthier space. i hope you have found the tools provided

Blog 62: Centering PART 2 – calming down in a turbulent season. Bridling the mind.
©Pinterest Who said this would be a three part series? There’s too much good stuff to give you all at once . . . and

Blog 61: Centering. PART 1 – for those who feel their world is chaotic and need to calm things down.
©Possibility Change This blog is the first of a two-part series on centering. It’s in response to feedback from those struggling to operate in a

Blog 60: Why am I always saying sorry? I feel like I am always making mistakes and am never good enough. PART 3 – Anything else I can do?
Yep. There are a range of things i’d like to leave you with in this three-part series. The difference between average people and achieving people

Blog 59: Why am I always saying sorry? I feel like I am always making mistakes and am never good enough. PART 2 – Enter the pocket sheet
i hope the work you did in blogs 55 to 58 on balancing work and vacation served you well over the Easter break . .